Navigating the Intricacies of Relationships: Deepening and Expanding Connections

How do we maintain relationships, including deepening existing ones and expanding into new ones?

The field of interpersonal communication offers insightful perspectives. In essence, communication studies suggest that “relationships” are the outcome of information exchange. Continuous interaction with someone sustains a relationship, while engaging with more people expands your network of relationships.

Moreover, the nature and type of information exchanged shape the nature of the relationship. For instance, close friends might share details about food, weight, health issues, gossip about boys, and venting sessions. Colleagues, on the other hand, are more likely to discuss work and general life matters. You’ll notice that the content and manner of information vary significantly across different relationships.

Therefore, deepening a relationship involves not just the frequency and volume of interactions (more isn’t always better), but also the “depth” of information shared. It’s about the willingness to reveal secrets, to share past experiences, to disclose those solitary walking spots, to talk about what’s for dinner…

There’s a saying, perhaps a bit inappropriate as an analogy, that a man crying in front of a woman can have an impact similar to a woman wearing lingerie. Well, it’s just a saying, but the point is about vulnerability. Sharing your vulnerabilities is arguably the most significant way to deepen a relationship.